China has a long history and vast territory. And marriage customs have been changed so far of the foot, but the wedding party is always dominated by an atmosphere of luxury and excitement, happiness and blessings. It was necessary to complete the marriage ceremony after six regular during the ancient times of China, such as providing gifts to offer marriage and betrothal gifts to the reception and the bride and others. In the past, if a boy like a girl, asked to go to the matchmaker, the girl's house to her.
Then, the boy does not have to present gifts to the matchmaker, but are also required to take some gifts to the girl's house, where members share matchmaker with the girl's family card bearing the name and age of the boy and girl. If the two sides agreed on the whole, begin evaluation of the fiancé and fiancée. And then choose the boy's mother one day be blessed to visit the girl's house to learn more about their conditions, such as the financial situation of the girl's family, morals, and her features, etc., can also be the parents of the girl to choose to travel in the boy's house to see the conditions of melting candidate
But in ancient times, do not allow a girl to visit her husband candidate. But now conditions have become the opposite of what it was in the past, often visiting the girl accompanied by her parents, the boy's house to find out conditions. In some rural areas in Beijing, if the girl and her parents stayed in the house of a suitor for a meal, it indicates that the two sides have agreed to the engagement.
The decree is considered a major engagement in the marriage customs. Although she promised to customary among the general public, but it has effectively illegal in most cases. During the engagement ceremony, the family often offer gifts to the girl's fiancé fiancée and her family. In the city of Wen Zhou, South China, the people that Khatami's engagement ring symbolizes eternity, according to type a word in Chinese Alkhatmin old wishing strengthen marriage. Does not allow the traditional concept of the two sides pledge to abandon after the engagement ceremony, and are not allowed to display both married to other people. So, people engagement is a legal decree. After a series of official ceremonies, beginning with the two sides prepare for the welcoming ceremony the bride, which is more detailed and complex activity and enthusiasm during the wedding ceremony of ancient and modern
On the day appointed for a welcoming ceremony the bride, the bride wears on the whole fashion and decoration bright red with a view to reflect the happiness and blessings. But now appeared the custom of wearing long white wedding dresses. When the bride leaves her home, always be left by an expression of nostalgic tears to her family. When you reach the bride to the house of the groom, the wedding begins. In some areas, the bride should pass a brazier in the courtyard in order to eliminate things that are not blessed with fire and the achievement of a thriving life between the spouses in the future
After the bride to enter the room, held the ceremony and one after the other. First and foremost, you must kneel on the bride and groom three times. First of the sky and the earth, and the second of their parents and the third is kneeling couple and face to face. In the room the couple, exchanging cut a lock of hair and keep each other lock of hair as a symbol of the marital relationship.
And reaches its peak when the wedding banquet held marriage, no wedding banquet. And the general public pays great attention to the splendor of the banquet it highlights the luxury wedding. During the banquet, the bride to pick up food for the guests themselves Balaudin appreciate their presence
Finally, the couple entered their room individual. It meets around many of the boys and girls is married with doing everything in their power to play with the couple or ask difficult questions for them or do things jokingly or ask them offer their program for the day to increase the joy and fun at the wedding and make the couple will not Encian this day never along their lives.
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